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I have a hobby which is writing. I completed a fictionalized story about an interesting fellow I met awhile ago. Some details about our friendship and about him have been changed. My question is: should writers ask their subjects if they can write about them, even if they changed the names and details ? I think the answer is yes, but, then, if everyone did this, there probably would be much less fiction out there.

Howard


 

A: Dear Howard:

This is an interesting question, and since I have never written a word of fiction in my life, I can't say I have ever thought about it much before I got your email. So I consulted a friend of mine, Dr. Jill Hammer, who is both a rabbinical student and published poet and short-story writer, and she helped clarify what the issues might be.

Jill suggested that a primary Jewish moral consideration to apply in this case is
halbanat panim, literally "whitening the face," but understood as doing something which shames or embarrasses someone in public. For example, in Pirke Avot we read that one should "cherish another's honor as one's own." (Avot 2:15) Even more dramatically, a little later in the text, Rabbi Elazar HaModai warns us that someone who shames another in public has no share in the world to come! (Avot 3:15) The later halachic texts pick up on these early statements and expound them both legally and morally, really driving home the point that we must be careful of each other's feelings.

A related idea which I think you might consider is
lashon hara, the "evil tongue," which refers to a traditional prohibition on gossip or spreading any kind of rumours about people behind their backs. Lashon Hara is prohibited even if it is true, unless there is some danger in not speaking the truth; any kind of information about others, whether ostensibly damaging or seemingly benign, is prohibited in the most strict understandings of the term.

Returning to your question about fiction writing, Jill agrees with you that this is a common situation, and she thinks that if so many details were changed that nobody but you would know about whom you were writing, there wouldn't be any ethical problem. I might add that psychiatrists and psychologists, who have very strict rules of confidentiality, do this all the time when they write about their clients in popular or professional media.

Thus, if you're going to portray somebody in a negative light, I think it would be unethical to do so without taking precautions to protect their honor and dignity- even if you think they deserve it. (Not to mention the value of protecting yourself against lawsuits.) If you write in such a way that only a few people, very close to the situation, would recognize the person, then to me, it might in fact be incumbent on you to seek the subject's permission; after all, you might not know what other people know and what they don't.

Where Jill and I might disagree is in the case where it's questionable as to whether the person would be embarrassed, or even if the fictional portrayal is a positive one. For example, in the latter case, she thought there was no issue, and one could go ahead with a positive portrayal of someone without feeling obliged to consult them. Personally, I would probably err on the side of caution, recalling that the prohibition on
lashon hara applies even if it's good news or bad, even if it's something true about a person- according to the strict interpretation, we are simply not supposed to be spreading news about people behind their backs.

Therefore, were I writing a story about someone, I might try to seek their permission, reasoning that I didn't know how they would react or what they considered a positive or negative portrayal. Thus, in my opinion, if there were any question about someone's reaction, you'd certainly have to consult them or change the details so the source couldn't be identified.

On the other hand, as you point out, if everybody always consulted with the people they are writing about, there might be a lot less fiction in the world, which is probably why Jill, who is an author, was more willing to allow the writer some leeway in deciding what the consequences of the story might be. As she put it, "people don't own their character traits," and since writers get inspiration from all different aspects of their lives, I imagine it might be a burden to them to have to check each time they take inspiration from someone.

Two more points to consider, one suggested by Jill and one suggested by another rabbi with whom I was discussing this issue. Jill also brought up the rabbinic idea of attributing one's sources, which was a serious value in the ancient rabbinical academies. Someone was always supposed to say from whom they learned a particular teaching, and in fact the Talmud is full of statements like "Rabbi X said in the name of Rabbi Y, who learned it from Rabbi Z..." So I understand this tradition as implying that that if someone inspires you to write something, you should somehow attribute it to them- but that would be contrary to the idea of anonymity to protect their honor as we discussed above.

Finally, Rabbi Litwin, here in Toronto, brought up the idea of stealing with the following scenario: suppose you wrote a story about someone you knew, and then went on to earn a lot of money from book and the film rights and speaking appearances? Wouldn't they deserve some of the money? If the answer is yes, then you could argue that even in the case where the story won't make much money, a person has a right to control their portrayal, and "owns" their image, as it were- in which case I'd say you'd have to consult them before publishing.

If you say no, that the person does not have a right to that money, then I suppose you're presuming that it's only the artistic portrayal of someone that is "valuable," and a person does not "own" the right to control it, but rather the artist does. In that case, you might adopt the more lenient view, that someone does not necessarily have to consult before publishing.

Either perspective seems defensible to me, though as noted, I personally would err on the side of caution. However, please bear in mind that rabbinic ruminations about halacha and Jewish ethics have no bearing on Canadian or American laws pertaining to publishing and libel and things like that- you don't want to lose your share in the world to come OR get sued! With careful consideration of the ethical issues in any given case, I think you can keep your share in the world to come and write powerful fiction inspired by living people; to avoid lawsuits, talk to a lawyer.

NJL

 

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