Parashat Toldot, Genesis 25:19-28:9

In loving memory of Joel Michael Swirsky, by his loving family.

Despite all he has been through, Isaac is a hopeful, spiritual individual.

Film buffs will tell you that 1939 was a fabulous year for movies. Among the classics produced in that year were Gone with the Wind and The Wizard of Oz. Another memorable film from that same year was one of my mother's favorites, The Hunchback of Notre Dame with Charles Laughton. One of the most powerful scenes in the film contains a line I do not believe is in the book, but which my mother always quoted. When Quasimodo is tied to a wheel and lashed, to the delight of the mob, he suffers silently until Esmeralda takes pity on him and gives him a drink. After he is released from this torture, Quasimodo utters the powerful line: "She gave me water." This small gesture from Esmeralda has a powerful and lasting impact: She recognizes the hunchback's humanity.

North American tourists traipsing through Europe at times feel as though they too are subject to ridicule and abuse, and water often plays a role in this. How many of us have experienced the culture shock that occurs when asking for a glass of water in a restaurant on the continent? If you insist on a glass of actual tap water, the serving staff has a fit and might even refuse to serve you such a dangerous concoction. If you acquiesce to ordering a bottle of water, you are overwhelmed with the selection of waters: Artesian spring, well or glacier? Natural or carbonated? What mixture of minerals?

This is nothing compared to the challenges Isaac faces this week in his quest for water:

Isaac dug anew the wells which had been dug in the days of his father Abraham and which the Philistines had stopped up after Abraham's death; and he gave them the same names that his father had given them. But when Isaac's servants, digging in the wadi, found there a well of spring water, the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with Isaac's herdsmen, saying, "The water is ours." He named that well Esek, because they contended with him. And when they dug another well, they disputed over that one also; so he named it Sitnah. He moved from there and dug yet another well, and they did not quarrel over it; so he called it Rehoboth, saying, "Now at last the Lord has granted us ample space to increase in the land."

Genesis 26:18-22

In the little we find out about Isaac in the Torah, we are given detailed information about his pursuit of water. This is certainly understandable given the geography and climate in which he lives. But we have encountered water related issues elsewhere in the Torah and know that it has a symbolic significance as well.
As discussed previously in greater detail, water is a sign of spirituality. We encounter this with Hagar's loss of hope, shedding tears as she sees her son's life ebbing away because of thirst. We will come across it again at the joy of crossing the Sea of Reeds and at the panic that ensues after Miriam dies and the people are left without water.

Beyond general spirituality, Rabbinic Judaism in a number of midrashim compares water to Torah:

As waters reach from one end of the world to the other, so Torah reaches from one end of the world to the other. As waters give life to the world, so Torah gives life to the world. As waters are given without cost to the world, so is Torah given without cost to the world. As waters are given from heaven, so is Torah given from heaven. As waters are given to the accompaniment of powerful thunderings, so was Torah given to the accompaniment of powerful thunderings. As waters restore a man’s spirit, so Torah restores a man’s spirit. As waters cleanse a man from uncleanness, so Torah cleanses an unclean person from his uncleanness. As waters come down in myriads of drops and become a multitude of brooks, so are words of Torah… As waters leave a high place and flow to a low place, so Torah leaves him whose opinion of himself is high and cleaves to him whose spirit is lowly.

Hayim Nahman Bialik and Yehoshua Hana Ravnitzky (eds.) 

The Book of Legends, 404-5:22, translation William Braude

That Isaac spends so much time and effort digging for water, a symbol of spirituality, reveals much about his character. Despite all he has been through, he is a hopeful, spiritual individual. He opens wells that have been filled and he digs for new sources of water. The Talmud (Berachot 26b) informs us of his spirituality through the tradition that Isaac is responsible for the Mincha (afternoon) service. Through his focus on wells of water we can add another aspect to his spiritual endeavors. As Yalkut Shimoni (Shir 537) teaches: the Torah is a well of living waters.

Isaac is unique among the patriarchs. He is the only patriarch who remains in the land promised by God to Abraham. He is also the only patriarch not to have his name changed. Name changes take place in the Torah after a close encounter with the Divine. Surely, Isaac bound on the altar had an unimaginably intimate encounter with God, yet his name remains the same! Perhaps there is something spiritually different about Isaac, foretelling a different way of relating to God.

Isaac is sensitive to the holiness of normality. It is with Isaac that we first come across the word "love" in relation to another person: …he took Rebekah as his wife. Isaac loved her… (Genesis 24:67) He pleads with God on her behalf. (Genesis 25:21)  It is Isaac who flirts and frolics with his wife. (Genesis 26:8) He is the one who enjoys a good meal and asks his son to make him his favourite dish. Despite, or perhaps because of his traumatic experience, he appreciates that daily routine is extraordinarily special. He can appreciate the transformative affect of giving someone a sip of water.

Isaac teaches us one more lesson about spirituality, a way of communicating with God that was bestowed upon him when he was named. Elie Wiesel muses about this patriarch's mundane but amusing name:

Why is the most tragic of our ancestors named Isaac, a name which evokes and signifies laughter? Here is why. As the first survivor, he had to teach us, the future survivors of Jewish history, that it is possible to suffer and despair an entire lifetime and still not give up the art of laughter.
Isaac, of course, never freed himself from the traumatizing scenes that violated his youth; the holocaust had marked him and continued to haunt him forever. Yet he remained capable of laughter. And in spite of everything, he did laugh.

Elie Wiesel, Messengers of God: Biblical Portraits & Legends, p. 97

From Isaac we learn that laughter is also prayer.

Shabbat shalom,
Rabbi Michal Shekel

Parashat Chukat, Numbers 19:1-22:1

This Parasha has been generously sponsored by Linda Halton in loving memory of her parents, William and Freda Brayer.

We are each given the opportunity to take an active role in Jewish life and especially in Jewish spiritual life.

The 1964 musical Fiddler on the Roof introduced a Jewish concept to a world-wide audience: "Tradition!" More accurately, the play introduced a Jewish perspective on the origins of customs and rituals:

You may ask, "How did this tradition get started?" I'll tell you! I don't know. But it's a tradition...

Fiddler on the Roof, Act 1, book by Joseph Stein

Actually, the "I don't know" part has a technical term: mi-Sinai (from Mount Sinai). This refers to something so ingrained in Judaism, we believe it was always so. Halachah le-Moshe mi-Sinai is used to indicate laws that are traditionally considered basic to Judaism. Mi-Sinaitunes refers to melodies that are so deeply ingrained in Judaism, it is as though they too were part of the Revelation at Sinai. The great Aleinu sung on the High Holy Days is an example of this.

It is always interesting to find out that traditions we think of as being as old as civilization are not so. Take the diamond engagement ring. There is a complex etiquette concerning the meaning of the ring and its value. Books on marriage (and salespeople at jewelry stores) will tell you that a gentleman has to set aside a certain percentage of his yearly salary to purchase this item in order to prove his devotion to his basherte (intended). According to proponents of this custom, less than 3 months salary and his intentions may be called into question. Yet the whole notion that "a diamond is forever" is really a clever ad campaign created for one of the world's leading diamond interests in the 1930's. Arguably, this is one of the most successful ad campaigns in history.

There are a number of things within Judaism that are more recent than we think. The Bar-Mitzvah is a prime example of this, dating back to medieval times . So, when in the 1922 Rabbi Mordecai Kaplan held a Bat-Mitzvah ceremony for his daughter Judith, it was considered by many to be an innovation, although according to Professor Howard Tzvi Adelman, there were earlier examples of a ceremony for females in the Ukrainian city of Lvov (1902) , and even in 19^th century Baghdad:

And also the daughter on the day that she enters the obligation of the commandments, even though they don't usually make for her a seudah (festive meal), nevertheless that day will be one of happiness. She should wear Sabbath clothing and if she is able to do so she should wear new clothing and bless the Shehecheyanu prayer and be ready for her entry to the yoke of the commandments.

Ben Ish Chai, translation: Howard Tzvi Adelman)

Although the ceremonies in Baghdad, Lvov, and New York, were not quite the same as today's Bat-Mitzvah, they were innovative. Then again, as the Bar-Mitzvah ceremony itself proves, innovation is a Jewish tradition.

The latest iteration of this lifecycle ceremony is the adult Bat-Mitzvah. Somewhat less common, though probably older, is the adult Bar-Mitzvah, which was immortalized in the 1960's sitcom The Dick van Dyke Show, episode #149, Buddy Sorrell-Man and Boy.

I recently had the pleasure of attending an adult Bat-Mitzvah ceremony at Congregation Darchei Noam in Toronto. A group of nineteen women immersed themselves in Jewish study for two years. Many could not read Hebrew a couple of years ago. Yet they all confidently led an incredibly moving service. It was my privilege to have been one of their teachers.

Some of these women were raised at time when girls and women did not receive a Jewish education; they dedicated their efforts to their mothers and grandmothers. Some honoured fathers who, a la Buddy Sorrell, did not have an opportunity to celebrate a Bar-Mitzvah in their youth. Each woman went through the course of study for herself, in order to be able to participate more fully in the life of the community.

We are each given the opportunity to take an active role in Jewish life and especially in Jewish spiritual life. There is a difference between being led and being empowered. A most dramatic example of this is found in Parashat Chukat. At the very beginning of the parashah we find out that Miriam has died and the people are without water. (Numbers 20:1-2) Panic ensues and God instructs Moses to gather the people, talk to a rock, and water will miraculously come forth. Moses, frustrated with the people, hits the rock instead, an action that will come back to haunt him. The place where this occurred is remembered as being the "Waters of Contention (Mei Merivah)."

Though everything went wrong there, the people learned a lesson. This becomes evident later on in the portion when once again the people complain of a lack of water and are gathered together:

And from there to Beer, which is the well where the Lord said to Moses, "Assemble the people that I may give them water." Then Israel sang this song:
Spring up, O well—sing to it—
The well which the chieftains dug,
Which the nobles of the people started
With maces, with their own staffs.

Numbers 21:16-18

From passive observers waiting for Moses to do things for them, the people now eagerly participate in this event.

Water is a symbol of spirituality. Remember Hagar who lost all hope once her water ran out in the wilderness (Genesis 21:14-18)? Remember the fervent joy and belief at the Sea of Reeds, when Miriam led the women in song (Exodus 15:19-20)? Miriam had so much to do with water. (Her very name, "bitter sea," cries out for midrashic interpretation, which will have to wait for another occasion.) The Talmud and Rashi take note of the connection between the death of Miriam and the lack of water. According to Taanit 9a, it was due to Miriam's merit that the children of Israel had water through all the years of wandering. This source of water is the legendary Miriam's Well.

The craving for water is more than a physical desire and attests to Miriam's spiritual leadership. No wonder that as soon as she dies, we are told that the people were without water. They had lost a particular spiritual access. Moses was unable to give it to them. He struck the rock, a physical act, instead of speaking to the rock and coaxing the water out in a nurturing manner. But the lesson was not lost on Israel. They had reached a point where they would either remain who they were, or take responsibility for their own spirituality. And so they sang to the well.

It certainly wasn't easy for our ancestors in the wilderness. It couldn't have been easy for the nineteen adult B'not Mitzvah on that recent Shabbat in Toronto, but the opportunities are there if we are open to them. It goes beyond thirsting for those spiritual waters. That is only the first step. The thirst must be quenched. Chukat teaches that we don't have to wait for the glass of water to be offered to us. We can each take it upon ourselves to joyfully draw waters from the wells of salvation (Isaiah 12:3).

Shabbat shalom,
MS